6 Mistakes People Make On The First Date

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You just spent the last couple of hours (but what really felt like minutes) swiping through dozens of profiles on Suitors. And just as you were about to call it a night, the ping of your smartphone indicated a Match! Between getting that beauty sleep and waking up groggy but glad to have a date, you know which path you are ultimately going to take.

Suitors, being a latest dating app, is promising in its attempt to bring people together. But after that, it’s all on you. Chances are that you are a little jittery at getting to know someone new or maybe you’re confident that you’re going to wow them with your charming persona. But just to play it safe, here are six mistakes you should avoid making the first time you meet someone if you want that second date to be a real possibility.

  • Comment excessively on physical features.
    Yes, people like to be praised. But they are not swiping through mobile dating apps to look for someone who’d constantly remind them that the only thing worth noticing about them is their physical features. You don’t want to come across as someone who is shallow-minded and just in it for the looks. Talk about mutual interests or common experiences. That’s a good place to start.

  • Overstep and make decisions for the other.
    Don’t, under any circumstance, order food or beverages before the other person gets there. It shows that you are impatient and that you don’t really value their opinion. Similarly, when it is a crucial decision-making time, don’t presume to know what the other person would want. Are you there as their mother or their date? You should respect them enough to let them take their time mulling over options and to offer suggestions if asked.

  • Come on too strong.
    What this means is that you don’t want to look like you’re trying really hard to impress your potential partner. Even the best dating app in India will not give you complete information about the person you’ve been Matched with. So it is likely that you would’ve done some research at your end. But don’t give any indication that you know more about the person than they’ve let on. It makes you look like a stalker and you’ll probably never see them again. So play it cool and just be a good listener.

  • Letting gadgets be the third wheel.
    Okay, the Suitors app has done you a solid. Agreed. But at least now, set aside your phones and cameras to have a gala time with your date. You don’t want her/him to be sitting there, feeling ignored and thinking that you’d much rather be left alone with all that technology.

  • Bring your bad day with you.
    There are times when you could be so frustrated with life that all you’d want to do is run off to some tropical location for a vacation. If you’ve had a bad day or the past couple of days have been particularly tiring, then it is much better to excuse yourself and ask to reschedule the date for another day. You don’t want to drag all that negative vibe and spoil the other person’s mood. Nor do you want to use them as an audience for your rant or sorrows. There is absolutely nothing wrong with realizing that you’re not in the right frame of mind to be socializing and conveying the same to the other person.

  • Ask a lot of personal questions.
    While it is great to show concern and convey to your date that you are genuinely interested in getting to know them, there are certain things you shouldn’t show a curiosity for, especially on the first date. Like why do you want to know how many other people he has met from the Suitors platform? It’s not an interview! And be sure to not broach topics like parenting, money spending habits or religious conversion. After all, you want to have fun, light-hearted conversations, not be reminded of school debates.

It is human nature to make mistakes, so don’t beat yourself up if a first date didn’t go according to plan. Get back onto the Suitors dating app and try to salvage the situation to the best of your abilities. Something will definitely work out and you’ll come to think of Suitors as one of the best free dating apps in India…

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